We educate our children with the intention that he be something better in life, something even better than we were is very common parents want to give the best to their children of course as far as possible. But many parents go beyond this, many for lack of time, or for a relationship ''a marriage'' that didn't work out, do the impossible to fulfill all the desires of their children.
And it's no use saying that this is not true, because this really happens, and that's where the danger lies. Besides guilt, fear and insecurity also seem to be factors that weigh on parents when setting limits. Many have been so repressed and imposed such severe limits on them that they have grown up with the idea that if they say "no" to their children or impose any other limit on them, it will hurt them. "Children raised in an environment where everything can, where everything is allowed, do not learn to get along with others. They become insecure and disoriented" Children need attention, affection, but also limits. There is no use in trying to supply something that is missing with total freedom, letting children do whatever they want will only hurt them in the future. The presence of a responsible person is very important for her to feel safe. Another doubt at home is to know what is best for the children, what is allowed and what is not allowed. You know what this conflict of authority is. In many homes where parents don't understand each other, it is almost impossible to set limits, and do you know who suffers the most? Each parent gives their children what they think is best, and so the child soon learns that obedience is something relative, or manipulates one of the parents to get what they want!
Bjus and stay with God!
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